Why is it in the western world divorce has now reached pandemic stage? dont guys marry for love any more?

we here of marriage contracts and stuff like that. if you r going to make it a business proposition why not end the relationship in the office? why take a girl and instead of promising to takecareofher, love her, protect her, defend her, stand by her, you categorically tell her that you need a live in housemaid with priviledges in the bed room. how is she supposed to feel? how would you feel if a girl tells you that the only way she is going to stick with you is when you prove that you are a mobile bank? women r like flowers- they will respond to sunshine and rain no matter how little, so i feel the men r to blame. what do you think?