Is it meant to be & how will one know?

I had dated this woman for 2 months and then she told me she didn't think it was going to work and so we stopped seeing one another for about a month or more and she tex me saying she missed me and wanted for us to be together but as friends first. I have not dated anyone in 4 months since our 1st split and I am afraid that if I commit like before she will only hurt me once agian. What would you do if in my shoes? I love her but I don't think she feels the same and I feel that she will do the same.Am I wrong? Please give me some advise !